Well I know that a week from tomorrow is Valentines Day. Every year when this time comes around I find myself asking the same question. Why am I alone? Lol I know everyone will have an answer for that question.
Some say I am way to picky when it comes to dating. Well maybe that is so but who besides me knows if I am being to picky. Is it right to just settle for whoever so we are not alone? I say no we need to be selective in who we choose to date. It may sound mean or stuck up but it is the truth. I have a certain list in my mind that I check off when I meet someone. Granted I don't expect them to fulfill all the list but there is a breaking point for all of us. Now you might be saying your an idiot about now. Well so be it but I know what makes me happy and what I find attractive.
That is another thing. Attraction! I have been asked numerous times if I am attractive. My answer will always be yes. Now that is not to say I have the perfect body or perfect personality. But if you are asking me if I am attractive a yes will always be the answer. Based on my personal definition I am attractive. What people forget is that beauty/handsome/attractive are subjective. Meaning my definition of those concepts will be different from yours. So if you ask me if I am attractive and I say yes and you look at me and say hell no you are not. Well that is your definition and mine is different. So what I am attracted to is my personal preference and only I can change that for me.
Okay so what is the bottom line on this whole blog today. I am alone because the perfect person for me has not crossed my path. I know that at some point someone will cross my path and I will be happy beyond imagination. When and where that will well that is another thing. I have been told stop looking and it will happen. I have been told throw yourself out there and you will snag the right person. I have been told that the right person will find. I have been told go looking. So what is the answer? Who knows it is different for each person I believe on how they meet their soul-mate. For me it will be the way I do it.
Okay I started off this blog by talking about Valentines Day. By now you probably think I am anti Valentines day. Far from it. If you have that special someone in your life this Valentines I am happy for you. Just remember on that day that not all of us have been that lucky yet and cut us a break.
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